
Extended family photo sessions are incredibly meaningful — and, if not planned well, incredibly overwhelming.

When you’re photographing grandparents, adult siblings, spouses, kids, and sometimes even great-grandparents, it’s easy for the experience to feel chaotic instead of enjoyable. I’ve seen it firsthand: too many opinions, unclear expectations, and a rushed pace can turn something special into something stressful.
As a professional family portrait photographer, my goal is always the same — to help families feel relaxed, cared for, and fully present during their session.
In this post, I’ll walk you through how to plan a stress-free extended family photography session, what to think through ahead of time, and how the right preparation makes all the difference.
Extended family photography includes more than just parents and children. These sessions often involve:

Because there are more people involved, planning matters more than ever.
Without a clear plan:
With thoughtful planning, extended family photography becomes a calm, meaningful experience — one that honors the season your family is in right now.
One of the biggest stress reducers is designating a single family contact.
This person:
Clear communication upfront prevents confusion later — and keeps the session moving smoothly.
Before the session, take time to think through:
Having this list prepared allows your photographer to work efficiently — and ensures no one is forgotten.
Extended families don’t need identical outfits — and often look better without them.
Instead:
This creates visual harmony while still letting each family’s personality shine through.
Location matters even more with larger groups.
A good extended family session location:
As an extended family photographer, I help families choose locations that photograph beautifully and function well for groups of all ages. I have so many great options for every season in Rexburg, Idaho Falls, Island Park, Grand Teton National Park, Utah, and more!
Children don’t need to be “perfect” — but timing matters.
Whenever possible:
A calm pace helps kids feel safe and cooperative — and leads to more natural, joyful photos.
Extended family sessions work best when families trust gentle direction.
I guide:
This removes pressure from families and allows real connection to show through — which is what makes the images timeless.
Extended family photography isn’t just about capturing who was there — it’s about honoring your family as it is right now.
With thoughtful planning and a calm, guided approach, these sessions become something families look back on with gratitude — not stress.
Planning an extended family session doesn’t have to feel overwhelming — especially when everyone knows what to wear and what to expect.
To help make things easier, I’ve created a free resource to guide you through outfit planning with confidence:
This guide walks you through color palettes, styling tips, and coordination ideas that photograph beautifully — without everyone matching exactly.
Extended family sessions are often customized based on group size, location, and dynamics. If you’re planning a reunion, celebration, or multi-generation session, I’d love to help you create a calm, meaningful experience from start to finish.
Book your session for your wedding before Feb 14 and get 10% off through my inquiry form! Cost is $$$ for 15 minutes. Location and time will be finalized over email/text.
Book your session for your wedding before Feb 14 and get 10% off through my inquiry form! Cost is $$$ for 15 minutes. Location and time will be finalized over email/text.